Here are some of the signs that I look for when guy is just not that into me. This goes for a gal that isn’t into a guy too.
- He doesn’t call more than once a week.
- You don’t see him for more than once a week, even though you have been dating for over 2 months.
- You haven’t met his friends or family and you have been dating several months.
- He never makes plans. I have to decide what we should do.
- All he wants is sex.
- The sex is mechanical and makes you feel like a prostitute.
- He won’t get tested for AID’s or sexually transmitted diseases.
- He calls you at the last minute to hang out expecting me to say yes.
- He doesn’t compliment you, encourage you or say loving things from the heart to you.
- He can’t share his feelings, says you are “further along” than him or that he isn’t looking for a serious relationship.
- He is cheating on you.
- He doesn’t care if you are uncomfortable.
- He has to be in control and have his way all the time.
Don’t be delusional and don’t lie to yourself. Just dump the guy, kick him to the curb and delete their cell phone number from all of your phones. Don’t accept any calls. Drop him a short email telling him that you are DONE and moving on. Tell him that the man who is lucky enough to be with you should be proud and honored to have you in his life, and excited about showing you off to everyone he knows, make time for you and just be absolutely crazy about you. Tell him that you you deserve someone that can give you more emotions than a brick wall and make love to you with passion. And the sooner you get rid of this creep, the sooner you’ll meet a wonderful guy who will treat you like the awesome gal you are.
